If you understand absolutely nothing pertaining to women or the best ways to pick up and seduce women, you just need to know one point. You just have to understand THE one biggest secret to attracting women that all successful men typically have and losers don’t.

  • James Bond has it
  • Sports and movie stars have it
  • Rich men have it
  • Men that know exactly how to attract women have it
  • YOU can even have it

What is this magic secret that can turn you from zero to hero like a Hogwarts charm? Whiskey? Meditation ? Pheromones extracted from the Tazmanian wombat? It is something called CONFIDENCE.


If you take a look at wealthy or successful guys, they have a specific vibe, a certain authority, a certain swagger, a certain confidence. They exhibit confidence in their gestures, their voice articulations, and the way they connect with women. As a result of the successes and experiences that got them their high level of natural confidence, successful men have an innate high sense of value and are not afraid of women or being rejected.


Aside from puppy love and teenage crushes, what attracts a woman to a guy is not his looks, money, success, charm, or his outstanding conversational skills. Instinctively, what attracts a woman to a guy is his value. While for guys, a woman’s value at first is simply how hot she looks, for a woman, it’s much more complicated on an instinctive level. A woman, particularly a pretty woman, has a precise sense of her intrinsic value. She understands precisely what she is worth and what level of a guy she has the ability to attract. Naturally, the higher the woman thinks about herself, the higher the level of men she is going to attempt to attract.

This concept of the way the woman thinks of herself is her perceived value. What she thinks of a man is her perceived value of that man. A woman will be attracted to a man ONLY if her perceived value of him is above her own value. There is a popular myth saying that a woman, at the time of meeting a guy, instantly judges whether she will sleep with him or not. While this is only partly accurate IMO, the woman WILL decide subconsciously if your value is greater that hers or not, thus being attracted to you.


The idea of perceived value implies that you have to show the woman that your value is greater than hers. This is called “demonstrating your value” in pickup artist parlance. But before you have an opportunity to demonstrate your value, you initially need to approach the woman and get in the door and actually have her receptive to what you have to say. The moment you go up to a woman, the only basis of judgement of your value will be your level of confidence.

The higher your confidence, the higher your perceived value will be. With greater perceived value, you could attract the hotter women. Now the only concern is if you’re not rich, successful, powerful, or James Bond, how exactly do you radiate confidence that women find so tempting?

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